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[07/01/2010 12:16 am]
Because not everyone makes it into the next life, you know 97 And those who do don't always discover heaven's golden shore My new hobby helped in my transition, and Ilse helped, tooI'll always be grateful for thatBut I'm ashamed of going through her purse while she was asleepAll I can say is that at the time I seemed to have no choice ii I woke up the morning after my arrival feeling better than I had since my accident - but not so well I skipped my morning pain cocktailI took the pills with orange juice, then went outsideIt was seven o'clockPaul the air would have been cold enough to gnaw on the end of my nose, but on Duma it felt like a kiss I leaned my crutch where I'd leaned it the night before and walked down to those docile waves again To my right, any view of the drawbridge and Casey Key beyond was blocked out by my own houseTo the left, however - In that direction the beach seemed to stretch on forever, a dazzling white margin between the blue98 gray Gulf and the sea oatsI could see one speck far down, or maybe it was twoOtherwise, that fabulous picture-postcard shore was entirely desertedNone of the other houses were near the beach, and when I faced south, I could only see a single roof: what looked like an acre of orange tile mostly buried in palmsIt was the hacienda I had noticed the day beforeI could block that out with the palm of my louis vuitton diaper bag tote hand and feel like Robinson Crusoe I walked that way, partly because as a southpaw, turning left had come naturally to me my whole lifeMostly because that was the direction I could see inAnd I didn't go far, no Great Beach Walk that day, I wanted to make sure I could get back to my crutch, but that was still the firstI remember turning around and marveling at my own footprints in the sandIn the morning light each left one was as firm and bold as something produced by a stamping-pressMost of the right ones were blurry, because I had a tendency to drag that foot, but setting out, even those had been clearI counted my steps backThe total was thirty-eightBy then my hip was throbbingI was 99 more than ready to go in, grab a yogurt cup from the fridge, and see if the cable TV worked as well as Jack Cantori claimed iii And that became my morning routine: orange juice, walk, yogurt, current eventsI became quite chummy with Robin Meade, the young woman who anchors Headline News from six to ten AMBoring routine, right? But the surface events of a country laboring under a dictatorship can appear boring, too - dictators like boring, dictators love boring - even as great changes are approaching beneath the surface A hurt body and mind aren't just like a dictatorship; they are a dictatorshipThere is no tyrant as merciless as pain, no despot so cruel chanel red black handbag as confusionThat my mind had been as badly hurt as my body was a thing I only came to realize once I was alone and all other voices dropped awayThe fact that I had tried to choke my wife of twentyfive years for doing no more than trying to wipe 100 the sweat off my forehead after I told her to leave the room was the very least of itThe fact that we hadn't made love a single time in the months between the accident and the separation, didn't even try, wasn't at the heart of it, either, although I thought it was suggestive of the larger problemEven the sudden and distressing bursts of anger weren't at the heart of the matter That heart was a kind of pulling-awayI don't know how else to describe itMy wife had come to seem like someoneMost of the people in my life also felt other, and the dismaying thing was that I didn't much careIn the beginning I had tried to tell myself that the otherness I felt when I thought about my wife and my life was probably natural enough in a man who sometimes couldn't even remember the name of that thing you pulled up to close your pants - the zoomer, the zimmer, the zippity-doo-dahI told myself it would pass, and when it didn't and Pam told me she wanted a divorce, what followed my anger was reliefBecause now that other feeling was okay to have, at least toward herNow she really was 101 otherShe'd taken off the Freemantle louis vuitton hangbags uniform and quit the team During my first weeks on Duma, that sense of otherness allowed me to prevaricate easily and fluentlyI answered letters and e-mails from people like Tom Riley, Kathi Green, and William Bozeman III - the immortal Bozie - with short jottings (I'm fine, the weather's fine, the bones are mending) that bore little resemblance to my actual lifeAnd when their communications first slowed and then stopped, I wasn't sorry Only Ilse still seemed to be on my teamOnly Ilse refused to turn in her uniformI never got that other feeling about herIlse was still on my side of the glass window, always reaching outIf I didn't e-mail her every day, she calledIf I didn't call her once every third day, she called meAnd to her I didn't lie about my plans to fish in the Gulf or check out the EvergladesTo Ilse I told the truth, or as much of it as I could without sounding crazy I told her, for instance, about my morning walks along the beach, and that I was walking a little farther each day, but not about the Numbers Game, 102 because it sounded too sillyor maybe obsessive-compulsive is the term I actually want Just thirty-eight steps from Big Pink on that first morningOn my second one I helped myself to another huge glass of orange juice and then walked south along the beach againThis time I walked forty-five steps, which was a long distance for me to chanel flap bag totter crutchless in those daysI managed by telling myself it was really only nineThat sleight-of-mind is the basis of the Numbers Game You walk one step, then two steps, then three, then four, rolling your mental odometer back to zero each time until you reach nineAnd when you add the numbers one through nine together, you come out with forty-fiveIf that strikes you as nuts, I won't argue The third morning I coaxed myself into walking ten steps from Big Pink sans crutch, which is really fifty-five, or about ninety yards, round-tripA week later and I was up to seventeenand when you add all those numbers, you come out with a hundred and fifty-threeI'd get to the end of that distance, look back at my house, and marvel at how far away it lookedI'd also sag a little 103 at the thought of having to walk all the way back again You can do it, I'd tell myselfJust seventeen steps, is all That's what I'd tell myself, but I didn't tell Ilse A little farther each day, stamping out footprints behind meBy the time Santa Claus showed up at the Beneva Road Mall, where Jack Cantori sometimes took me shopping, I realized an amazing thing: all my southbound footprints were clearThe right sneaker-print didn't start to drag and blur until I was on my way back Exercise becomes addictive, and rainy days didn't put a stop to mineThe second floor of Big Pink was one large rolex watches for sale in the uk ro

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